"Think positive!" That is the eternal advice each and everyone hurls at you. Often the example that would go with it is that of Shahrukh Khan who, it seems, always thinks only positively. It seems, he always tells himself, "I am the best"!
Well, surely there is some sense in this feel. After all, Rene Descartes, one of the greatest philosophers ever, too, argued, though in a totally different vein, "I think, therefore I am"! By that logic, think positive, be positive, right?
Undoubtedly, optimism, hope, positivity are any day any time much better than a defeatist mindset. At least, we are thus forced in to some action which is sure to get some reaction which is far far better than lazy inertia, ugly lethargy.
Yet constant positivity! Is it possible, forget, desirable? Constant positivity may dry the flow of serotonin, I would say! Okay, let me not be flippant. But I do dread such shallow formulae.
Rather, I would tell myself the goal, next think of my lacunae, then chalk out a rough action plan that has all sorts of shock absorbers, and then take the first baby step which slowly but surely leads to strides, I believe. May be, I do not believe in self-aggrandising.
Rather I would think sensible! Sure, out there, there are any number of 'well-wishers' with draggers drawn to stab you every which way possible. In such a scenario, why add Enemy Number One? Why be one's own grave-digger with excessive bravado?
Instead, think through, think thorough, and act well. No, this is not defeatism. This is both self-preservation and self-amelioration. Honest self-talk, bettering the self in the process is, in my opinion, much better than a competitive superiority complex which mostly hides a complex of inferiorities! By thinking sensible, rather than 'thinking positive', I can be better than my own earlier worst or best or both, right? What say?
Pratima@ No, this is not a worldly weary clever practicality. Always dreaming big may lead to nightmares, I suppose. Instead a good REM sleep is much healthier!