Saturday, May 17, 2025

Think Positive

 "Think positive!" That is the eternal advice each and everyone hurls at you. Often the example that would go with it is that of Shahrukh Khan who, it seems, always thinks only positively. It seems, he always tells himself, "I am the best"!

Well, surely there is some sense in this feel. After all, Rene Descartes, one of the greatest philosophers ever, too, argued, though in a totally different vein, "I think, therefore I am"! By that logic, think positive, be positive, right?

Undoubtedly, optimism, hope, positivity are any day any time much better than a defeatist mindset. At least, we are thus forced in to some action which is sure to get some reaction which is far far better than lazy inertia, ugly lethargy.

Yet constant positivity! Is it possible, forget, desirable? Constant positivity may dry the flow of serotonin, I would say! Okay, let me not be flippant. But I do dread such shallow formulae. 

Rather, I would tell myself the goal, next think of my lacunae, then chalk out a rough action plan that has all sorts of shock absorbers, and then take the first baby step which slowly but surely leads to strides, I believe. May be, I  do not believe in self-aggrandising.

Rather I would think sensible! Sure, out there, there are any number of 'well-wishers' with draggers drawn to stab you every which way possible. In such a scenario, why add Enemy Number One? Why be one's own  grave-digger with excessive bravado? 

Instead, think through, think thorough, and act well. No, this is not defeatism. This is both self-preservation and self-amelioration. Honest self-talk, bettering the self in the process is, in my opinion, much better than a competitive superiority complex which mostly hides a complex of inferiorities! By thinking sensible, rather than 'thinking positive', I can be better than my own earlier worst or best or both, right? What say?

Pratima@ No, this is not a worldly weary clever practicality. Always dreaming big may lead to nightmares, I suppose. Instead a good REM sleep is much healthier!

Friday, May 16, 2025

Choice defines Character.

 Choice does define one's personality, right? What we choose shows up who/what we truly are. Let us look at a few concrete examples. Early in the morning, we may choose to drink hot water or tea or coffee, with or without sugar. Our choice immediately shows us up, lets know if we are a freakily health conscious person! 

The colour we love tells a story  about who we are. Blue, for instance, may indicate a brilliant creative personality ripe/rife with imagination and intuition, and with a philosophical bent of mind. Depression, however, is not very far away from such horizons!

If you like/prefer a noisy party to a quiet evening full of music and literature with your doggie at your side, you surely will not be the shallow, showy type, right? For a sojourn, what do you choose? The seaside? The snow capped mountain peaks? See, your choice would reveal your personality!

Classical music or the rap? Katthak or the folk? Bharat Natyam or the Bollywood 'zatkas'? Choose and show who you truly are! Why, what you wear tells a lot about you. The sober, traditional clothes would rarely conceal a jazzy, zany personality underneath. 

Choices have consequences, too. Do not you believe me? Well, the educational stream you choose sure does impact your life(-n-its)style, right? So, mistakenly though, people willy nilly choose science and/or commerce, without knowing the magic that Arts is.

In other words, choices often are assumptions, codified in to a paradigm over centuries, right? Why, our very language is such a codified choice. The same loving, kind, intelligent animal is "dog" in English, "chien" in French, "perrito" in Spanish and "Hund" in German. Our Marathi has a special childrenese "bhu bhu", too.

I would hence rather choose to assert that choices are less a right/wrong binary, and more a kline, may be. See, in a multi-disciplinary way, I may love literature, fine arts as well as sciences and management, right? I may love nature more, but society not less, right?

Involved herein would be the issue of excessive relativism which inevitably leads to infinite individualism which can be the breeding ground of anarchy! See how choices craft destinies not only of individuals, but of societies, and nations, too! Hence better always to choose wisely and with a foresight. Haste leads to waste, right?

Pratima@ A choice can be like the railway track at a juncture/junction, or the "road not taken" as Frost would say. Choose a path and choose an itinerary! Sure we can travel the road once over yet again. Hardly matters if the destination is the dream! 


Thursday, May 15, 2025

Out of battle

 Now that safely we seem to be "out of battle" which we fought and won quite decisively, no discouragement at all in talking about poetry that talks of the pity of war. Undoubtedly, a soldier is a braveheart. Behind that armour though is a man who is someone's somebody, right?  He is a son, a brother, a friend, a husband, a father! Indeed we should be indebted to an entire family who entrusts their (often the sole breadwinner) soul to protect (one-n-) all!

 English literature has a wealth of such sensitive poems that shore up the sheer barbarity of war which destroys  the human(e) bonds. The World War I poetry, known as the 'shell-shocked' poetry, the World War II poetry, the poems of the inter-war years which actually saw the dismally disenchanting and hence truly traumatic Spanish Civil War (because it showed how hollow the so-called liberal, left rhetoric was), these genres of poems are truly moving. So are the essays (especially by George Orwell, the conscience of an era, actually of all times) and novels. Poems, however, crystallise the feel the best. So let us talk of poems.

Wilfred Owen's "Strange Meeting" (the title of our blog comes from that poem) , for example, shows the vacuity of war as the poem is a dramatic monologue wherein two dead soldiers meet in hell to underscore "truths that lie too deep for taint".

I shall discuss "Vergissmeinnicht" some other time. Right now, let me mention "Ultima Ratio Regum".  It talks of a civilian casualty, a man "too young and too silly" who had hardly any worth "in terms of employment, hotel ledgers, news files" as he was too much a commoner to be worthy of any special notice. 

In almost prosaic lines sipped in scathing sarcasm and satire, Stephen Spender concludes his searing poem. He questions "O World, O death". He asserts,"One bullet in ten thousand kills a man./Ask. Was so much expenditure justified/On the death of one so young and so silly".

Out of battle emerges nothing. All is wasted, best of resources, and worst of all, lives  valuable to the near and dear ones, but due to the war rendered valueless!

Pratima@True, a century later, realities have changed drastically, nay, critically.  Geopolitical scenarios are brutal. Terrorism constantly rears up its ugly hood. Yet the sophisticated weaponry, too, kills both, the innocent civilians and the army (wo)men! What, and where, is the solution to the barbarity that imposes a war on us??? Which alternatives to brutal battles?


Wednesday, May 14, 2025

Born Brave!

 Certain scenes cannot just be wiped out of the lore that floats nebulously around  certain individuals. Think of Bhagat Singh, and who can ever forget a young martyr requesting the jailor, who came to fetch him to the ugly gallows, with "Just a few minutes more. I am about to complete reading this book. The last page and the last few lines, please." The brilliant bibliophile, who was both a committed activist and a revolutionary thinker, thus comes alive in the most cynical mind.

Think of Savarkar and can you ever forget the Marseille adventure, however much may the doubting Thomases debate the length, the breadth, the depth of the sea water near the pier? It is a totally separate story altogether that these worthies, they themselves will not be able to dive into a pool five feet deep!

Yes, the other major events matter much in the lives of these extra-ordinary individuals. And, oh, yes, there happen to be very many. Yet an iconic moment defines the magic that such lives are.

Today is the birth centenary of Sambhaji Maharaj. He, too, is one such illuminati who lived a luminous life. Which, in your opinion, is the most magical moment in his life ? True, tough to decide indeed! Many, who have known him due to the film "Chava", would say that his tragic death is etched forever in every mind.

Undoubtedly! In my opinion, however, it is his stay as a political hostage at the great ole age of nine! Till that moment, may be, he never knew a moment away from the warm togetherness with Jijabai, his grandmother. Suddenly, for political convenience that suits the Moghul demand for the Purandar Treaty, this kid has to stay as the human alibi in the enemy camp, surrounded by weapons of every kind, physical and psychological!

He survives that impossible feat! Like a prince! Absolutely royally! Learns a trick or two from the princes around, teaches them a strategy or two. Mirza Raje Jai Singh actually grows fond of the lad.

In my opinion, this stay as a young boy in the enemy camp truly made him. Thus he could survive the terrible days incognito in the return journey from Agra back to Fort Raigad, when he had often to be all alone amongst total strangers.

Sure, the gory end he had to suffer is tragic beyond words. Yet he was much experienced then, was a grown-up man who had seen many up's and down's, a few due to his own mistaken judgements. The childhood imprisonment, however benevolent apparently, thrown by the destiny at him and his father, it he braved truly like a king. Born Brave indeed!

Pratima@ Bravery is the audacity not to be hindered by failures, and to continue to walk with freedom, strength and hope in the face of total annihilation, complete disasters! 



Tuesday, May 13, 2025

Being Narsimha

 No, no, please let not the title of our blog delude you. No, I am not referring to an astute prime minister of ours who was well-versed in many languages and was, with Manmohan Singh, partially responsible for the LPG.

Rather, I am thinking of the Narsimha myth  (it was Narsimha Jayanti yesterday) and how it can be reinterpreted to suit the current contexts. You will have to forgive me the obvious partiality. That is okay though. In such contexts, I AM unashamedly partisan.

My submission is that the moment India is ill-treated the worst way possible like Bhakt Prahlada was, the hidden Narsimha in our army's genes rises anew, and slays the enemy while it is neither day nor night, in a space that is neither merely the air nor just the land, in a manner that is both professional and precise. 

Yes, Pakistan, which was obviously showing its terror connections during the last rites of those vanquished during the first strike @Operation Sindoor, has been taught the perfect lesson, like the cruel Hirnyakashypu who considered himself invincible, who mocked the benefactor for his boon. That asinine arrogance was punished in a place neither inside nor outside their territory, at a time neither merely day nor just night.

Time alone would tell if our very own Hirnyakashypu has learnt the proper lessons adequately.  The rumour is that the forever nuke threat is nullified, too. Hope our army would never ever again have to assume the fierce Narsimha avatar. 'Live and let live' is the advice the Hirnyakashypu's of the contemporary world must follow!

Pratima@ Bother and be bothered, right, left and center, is the current mantra, right?

Monday, May 12, 2025

Peace

 Talking of peace right now is quite an oxymoron, right? Our curious neighbour, quite some frenemy (enemy to us, friend to powers that be), would not allow that fragile feeling to flourish. Yes, it is often said that we should not allow others to disturb our inner peace. With a rogue neighbour who forever growls with the atomic threat, peace, not only inner, but outer, too, is sure to be disturbed. 

Why, the border is bursting with the cacophony of  weapons. For no fault of us, that is, no provocation on our side to begin with, we are dragged in to this blistering blare that merely means the terror-ible truth!

Hence even when it is the Buddha (whose every image is peace incarnate) Purnima today, fractured is peace. In my opinion, the problem with Pakistan as a nation is a piece of mindset whereby such entities always try to wipe out others so as to appear better, bigger, et al. 

However, the best way to be is to keep on (re)drawing one's line in such a way that it is so much longer, and you continue streching it longer still, however much others may try to wipe it clean. It is thus that peace would be a creative companion, forever following you!

Pratima@ Peace is costly, says an African proverb. But it IS worth the expense.

 

Sunday, May 11, 2025

THE Day!

 It is THAT day of the year yet again. We should know. Our blog began on that day! Yes, it is the Mothers' Day today. Our blog began as a tribute to Aai on the very first Mothers' Day after her sad demise, and it has been a joy, a sense of achievement, a degree of fulfilment contributing to it continuously, without fail, every day!

Aai deserves this memoriam. Like Papa, she, too, loved writing. Her poems have been published. Her submissions for the academic courses on Geeta, Sant Dnyaneshwar, Sant Tukaram were appreciated. She was a rank-holder in the final examination of each of these courses. Her students of the course on Sant Ramdas appreciated her inputs. I suppose, hence, the best tribute to her would be a daily write-up, right?

Parents continue to 'manage' us forever. Why, if 'father' is the hard disk of our existence, 'mother' is the software, right? Our 'programmes' run excellently and efficiently because of that underlying system, right? That debt indeed is beyond any re-paying!

As for Aai, we get in to this world at all because of her unbelievably painful labour. Literally. A generation ago, it never used to be the convenient caeserean section. Literally she would be re-born so that we can be born! Honestly, whatever we may achieve, attain, accomplish, is because of that primal sacrifice of hers. Never ever forget her however much the worldly lures ensnare you! Long live the Mothers' Day! Long live Aai's memory!

Pratima@Imagine the miseries, the worries, the tensions of the mothers of the soldiers fighting at the border, now that Pakistan has violated the ceasefire, and the battle has renewed bitterly!

Think Positive

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