Misunderstandings!

 Misunderstandings! What are they? How are they formed? Most importantly, why are they formed, rather, consciously  created/constructed? The motive matters, and the motive is malicious most often. To trap someone so as to please someone else, or one's own bloated ego, is most often the motive, right?

Okay, let me give you concrete examples to prove my assertion. Look at the Mangeshkar issue, for instance. To begin with, why are misunderstandings being bandied against the late Lataji? Ugliest things are getting written and said, and that, too, on record! Forget the respect due to a dead soul. The vicious malice is such that it just cannot be missed. Most interestingly, while saying the ugliest cusswords against her and the rest of the family, nobody is bothering to find out their version, the other side of the coin!

Just because you choose to blame/tarnish someone/some institute out of your mean malice does not mean that you are right! For SURE! Remember, even the worst criminal is given a chance to defend himself!

In the same context, why is it that the newspaper/TV journalists do not ask some basic questions such as the need to impregnate a woman with the IVF, especially when she had cancer issues? Her highly vocal sister-in-law herself said that there were cysts. Well, why did the lady not choose to deliver at the Indira IVF center? How come they could pay the extremely hefty fee for an IVF? If the husband concerned is a PA of an MLA, how is the family a deserving one financially/income-wise? Why did the family choose to argue for five long hours if she was heavily bleeding as stated by responsible officials @the Women's wing? What does Sassoon hospital have to say about her admission? If she was so heavily bleeding, why was the delivery not done the same day? Why did Surya hospital wait for the next day? Did Surya hospital not require the estimate for the neo-natal care of the poor pre-mature babies? One weighs 600 ounces if the media reports are true! Poor baby! What about the responsibilities of Surya and Manipal Hospitals where the delivery and the unfortunate death happened?

Much worse is the 'case' of Ms Sangeeta Lote, and her story. When the video flashed on my YouTube, I felt very bad. It moved me . But today I watched another video by Dr Deepak Jagtap which, with proof, trashes all the claims by Ms Sangeeta! Honestly, one gets the feel that there might be a plot to trap either some individual or the hospital itself.

 Is it internal politics because somebody, not wanted for whatever the reason(the person is so good, in fact, is excellent, that the very presence shows others in extremely poor light, for example? And, hence,) needs to be gotten rid of? Or is it party politics? Land grab? Hospital control? Very clear it is that through half truths, misunderstandings are consciously getting floated!

Horrible and horrid it is when one knows very well that mafia of all sorts are ganging up against you. But one cannot do much as there is no concrete tangible proof to show them up. One knows very well that one is being targetted consciously, and that misunderstandings are consciously being generated, and floated, by the powerful and mighty and monied who hence have cheap following, while one is all alone! 

Well, the only reaction can be, Lord, do not forgive them. They know perfectly very well what they are doing!

Pratima@Where, and when,  misunderstandings serve others as an advantage, one is helpless to make oneself understood.