February 14! THE day of mushy, cheesy sentimentality in a big way! Made hyper- romantic by the Bollywood films, the day is actually a huge consumerist spree, a proper tamasha. As it is, teenagers these days mostly are in to and out of relationships quite casually. Nor is love a sacrosanct feel for them. Sure there would be exceptions to this reality. They would, however, merely prove the real rule, right?
Can love ever be anything that is self-centred? What kind of 'love' tries to malign an innocent woman just because she is not interested in shallow time-pass affairs? Which 'love' tries to use a brilliant woman to hide one's own doubtful sexuality behind her? Such a chap knows really well that he can paint the town red with sick, silly stories which the straight(but not)'forward' woman would not even get to know as she would be busy with her simple, clean life.
Which 'love'-obsessed creep knowingly spreads ridiculous rumours about an absolutely innocent woman? Which horror of a man(!) uses his ill-gotten money to pay the riffraff who would harass constantly an innocent woman who would not touch their paymaster even with a barge pole? Just because one's wife is a harridan, a shrieking shrew, a cheap guy cannot bother a clean woman, right?
Just because he does not have anything at all to do, a creepy fool cannot 'cut to size', as he chooses to say, to completely destroy (वाट लगा दी!) a woman who is thousand times much better than him and his entire 'khandan'(ha!) put together. When such weirdo's choose to call their obsessive self-interest as 'love', they malign the very concept, right?
If a man meant anything genuinely at all, would he spread the scandal around through every Tom, Dick and Harry even when the woman at the center of this web never ever even remotely is in the company of anyone indecent like him! How come such 'love' is lost when it comes to giving her much-deserved jobs to somebody far inferior?
Where does 'love' disappear while openly serenading other women 'friends' (but never ever THE centre of attraction) to hotels, and other such places? All such games clearly have one sole purpose, (whatever be the reason, malice, jealousy, cheapness, pressure by (girl-)friends), to ill-treat an innocent woman!
Only cranky crackpots can be 'crazy nuts' (absolutely stinking ignorance of English!) to declare that a woman who does not respond to their public displays of cheap advances is bad, mad, and worse still, a witch! Such absurd nonsense, wherein a woman wants to be humiliated, chased, ill-treated out of 'love', may be stuff of reel, not real, life.
In real life, a woman's 'no' has to be taken to be an absolute rejection. Just because a woman does not like XYZ, it DOES not mean that she is abnormal! If the love is real at all, it will not out of malice and jealousy cut a woman's wings!
Genuine love helps the partner to grow every which way. True love is honest support. It is never dominating and dictating! Such sheer film-y nonsense is the proper pits! Really!
I chose hence to celebrate the 'Vasant Panchami' though there were many posts on certain groups which stated that the real goddess is not Saraswati whose social contribution such wonders questioned! Opposition for the sake of opposition, hatred for the sake of hatred, where are we indeed headed!?!
Pratima@Obsessive self-interest which leads to hatred of the innocent is really mediocre!
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