'Single'!!!

 Being single and not ready to mingle? For the rest of the world, that is quite some tingle (in the Marathi sense of the word, too!) First and foremost, you are a terrible threat to almost all. There is no knowing how and why. 

You are efficiently managing your home, you are quite good at your work/profession, you are excellent at all your avocations, you do not bother even an ant as if you are following the white stripes meant for the 'muni's' in Mumbai, and yet for most all, you are a discomfort. 

In fact, most everyone keeps a close watch on you as if they are the gestapo guarding a particularly rebellious Jew, a tribe if there was any during the Holocaust. What you wear, which veggies/fruits you buy, where you go when n why, what did you say to the "ghanta gadi mavashi", these mock gurkha-guards are forever following your every move(ment). 

It is obvious, these poor devils, they do not have anything to do. Their own lives are such that even boredom would be tired of being bored. The single person hence is their target, and rather an easy one, they think, because in their stupid no-brainer mode, there is no one to stand up for/support the single(s), especially a woman. 

No, no, no, they cannot even imagine helping out even in any smallest way. When would they have time, poor souls, they are gossiping the whole day about someone or the other, prefarably, of course, about everyone, excluding hopefully their own selves. They might even be indulging in this activity last mentioned because such dim-wits think that any mention, whether good or bad, is publicity. Who cares, if it is cheap!?!

They think they know when you slept, at night, in the afternoon, why, when you woke up, and in such wrong details that at times, you feel like walking up to them, and saying, "Do take some rest. You must be tired after this strict watch over me, day in and night out! Go off to sleep, now that your drunken drawl drooled enough, okay?" 

Sure you choose to laugh off, despite your irritation, the creeps' 'single'-minded watch over you because you realise how precious you are to their worthless lives! Next, you also thank your stars that you are not a single woman in a village, a widow suddenly forced to take care of her entire world, now that her husband chose the escape of a suicide. Your heart 'single'-mindedly goes out to the plight of such a woman, and you start thinking of 'singularly' reaching out to her, and others suffering the same way. Single is this simple!

Pratima@ What most brainless booby-traps do not undrstand that there is a huge, a Himalayan difference between being lonely, and alone. Poor devils of all sexes, they are lonely in all their relationships, especially with their own selves! 

Quote of the day:                                                         "If you make friends with yourself, you will never be lonely"."Learning how to be alone is a powerful skill. The only dates I never ever cancel are the ones with myself." Author anonymous.

Word of the day: solitude                                          Solitude is the state of being alone, often associated with a peaceful, calm, and positive environment. Unlike loneliness (which implies a painful feeling of being isolated), solitude is a deliberate, constructive choice to step away from social engagement in order to focus, reflect, and recharge.