It was by chance that I got to see the video. I was scrolling down for the news items. This particular video was ensconced therein. Actually, I rarely watch such videos about Bollywood people. It is sheer phillumbazi most often.
Well, in this particular video, Abhishek Bachchan was being quizzed about his wife. She is the "Miss World", successful as a heroine, had her share of gossip. But the way he handled every question about her, even the nasty ones, showed an extremely mature approach, very sure of himself, too. Indeed a class act which reflects very well on his upbringing, on the familial values.
Exactly opposite in attitude was the wife of a famous politician. He is well known for his efficiency, sincerity, honesty, genuine wholesomeness, the 'good guy' types. She was trying to be the 'oh so cool Modern Ms'. In the process, she often would come across as rather silly.
Even when the poor man was trying to save the situation in a subtle way, she would come up with, would let loose yet another 'gem', more embarrassing than the earlier. Whosoever could tell such people that publically dragging your partner over coals is not 'cool'.
Well, in public places, rectitude matters, I believe. Is not it the first rule of 'good communication' that " praise a person in public, blast him/her in private!" Openly showing your differences in public just appears hip. Actually, it is, I think, plain 'hic(k)'!
Pratima@Perspective and rectitude do matter, especially in intimate relationships in public glare!
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