Sometimes, or, may be, even often, in one's life, one meets absolutely awful people who bother one, ill treat one, harass one for no rhyme nor reason. Position/power drunk, they try to victimise one every which way.
The sad fact and truth of the whole ugly mess is that there would be buddies of the baddies who would please the crooks (the word, let it be noted, is gender neutral), and hence these baddie-buddy participate in the vicious sport of demeaning one every which way! How should one react?
First and foremost, one should NOT let it get one. If one is irritated or frustrated, that serves the purpose the crook(s). The best way hence is to plain ignore the mess. One behaves as if it just is not there, the mess. Thus the maker of the mess vanishes from one's vision. That is the best avenging angle, to begin with!
Oh, yes it is no use explaining to the onlookers one's version as they are kind of spectators who descend from the audience who loved gladiators being brutally gored.
In other words, one just continues being oneself. Sure, the hurdles in one's way would be countless, and for no fault of oneself. One learns to accept these as stepping stones to becoming a better version of the self by the second.
Neither persecution mania nor bursts of anger for being trapped for no reason! Just tirelessly continue being oneself. Take small, at times, even long, but regular breaks that are constructive and creative, and thus give one succour and support of all sorts.
Plain ignore the demeaning demon(s). No use second guessing the motives and methods of such sadists as it would make one like them. Better calmly carry on. Remember their continuing sick commentary is not going to drill holes in you skin or being.
If one wipes out the witchery of that viciousness by plain overlooking it, one empowers oneself immensely. That is the avenging angle which makes one the best avenging angel!
Pratima@ When one chooses to turn one's back on the dark, one gets to enjoy the visions of star-lit horizons!
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